Grief counseling support — a hand extended in comfort

Restoring Hope Ministries — Green Bay, WI

Grief Counseling & Loss Support

You don't have to grieve alone. Christ-centered biblical counseling for loss, bereavement, grief, and the hard questions that come with it — serving Green Bay and all of Northeast Wisconsin.

What We Offer

What Is Biblical Grief Counseling?

Grief counseling at Restoring Hope Ministries is a structured, Christ-centered process that helps individuals and families navigate loss. Whether you're grieving the death of a loved one, a miscarriage, a divorce, the loss of a relationship, or a significant life change — our counselors walk with you through the pain toward healing and hope.

Unlike grief support groups alone, individual grief counseling provides a safe, confidential, and personalized space to process what you're carrying. Sessions are guided by Scripture, prayer, and the presence of a trained counselor who genuinely cares.

We do not rush grief or offer easy answers. We believe in the ministry of presence — sitting with you in the hard places, just as Job's friends sat with him before they began to speak (Job 2:13).

Compassionate grief counseling session

Types of Loss We Walk Through With You

Grief is not one-size-fits-all. RHM's counselors are trained to walk with you through many different kinds of loss.

Death of a loved one (spouse, parent, child, friend)
Miscarriage or pregnancy loss
Grief after divorce or relationship loss
Loss of a child (any age — including adult)
Pet loss and companion grief
Job loss, career disruption, or identity loss
Loss due to illness or terminal diagnosis
Grief after abuse, betrayal, or abandonment
Loss of a church community or faith deconstruction
Grief from estrangement or fractured family
Cumulative grief and unresolved losses
Secondary traumatic grief for caregivers

Understanding Grief — A Biblical Perspective

The stages of grief are not a rigid checklist — they are patterns that describe the experience of loss. Scripture speaks honestly into every one of them.

1

Shock & Denial

The initial numbness and disbelief that follows loss. Scripture: 'My soul refuses to be comforted…' (Psalm 77:2). RHM counselors create a safe space for you to simply be present in your pain.

2

Anger & Protest

Anger at God, others, or yourself is a natural expression of grief. Lament psalms show us this is a legitimate part of walking with God through loss.

3

Bargaining & Longing

The 'what ifs' and 'if onlys' — a heart reaching for what has been lost. Counselors help clients bring these longings honestly before God.

4

Depression & Withdrawal

Deep sadness, fatigue, and detachment are part of grief — not a sign of weak faith. We walk alongside you with patience and biblical truth.

5

Acceptance & Integration

Grief does not 'end' — it changes. Integration means carrying the loss forward while continuing to live in hope. 'Weeping may last for a night, but joy comes in the morning.' — Psalm 30:5

"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."

— Revelation 21:4

Grief does not have the final word. Christ does. Our counselors hold this hope with you, even when you cannot feel it.

Why Choose RHM for Grief Counseling?

Scripture-Anchored

We do not offer coping techniques divorced from God. We anchor grief in the Bible's honest theology of lament, suffering, and hope.

Trained & Supervised Counselors

Our counselors have formal training in grief and loss and receive ongoing supervision — so you receive care that is both competent and compassionate.

Pastoral Presence

RHM counselors are not just professionals — they are people of faith who have walked through their own losses and understand the weight of grief.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is it okay for a Christian to grieve?

Absolutely. Jesus wept at the tomb of Lazarus (John 11:35). The Psalms are filled with lament. Grief is not a lack of faith — it is the honest acknowledgment of love and loss. At RHM, we believe healthy grief is a form of worship.

How is biblical grief counseling different from secular therapy?

Biblical grief counseling anchors the healing process in God's character, Scripture, and the hope of resurrection. While secular grief work focuses on emotional processing and coping, we also address spiritual questions: Where is God in this? What does eternity mean for my grief? How do I continue to trust a sovereign God?

Can grief counseling help with pet loss, job loss, or relationship loss?

Yes. RHM recognizes that grief is not limited to the death of a person. We serve individuals grieving divorce, miscarriage, job loss, the end of close relationships, health diagnoses, and more.

How long does grief counseling last?

There is no fixed timeline. Some individuals find significant support in 6–10 sessions; others benefit from longer engagement. We follow the person, not a protocol. Our goal is that you leave equipped to grieve healthily for life.

Ready to Take the First Step?

You don't have to carry this alone. Reach out to our team and we will walk with you toward healing, one step at a time.

Serving Green Bay, De Pere, Appleton, Oshkosh, Manitowoc, and all of Northeast Wisconsin — in person and via telehealth.

Care That Is Measured — Because People Are What Matter

Restoring Hope Ministries tracks the well-being of every participant in our clinical and faith-based services using empirically validated screeners, clinical interviews, behavioral analysis, and self-report — so we can honestly see whether the people we serve are getting better.

This rigor reflects the training of our founder, Dr. Jeffrey Gross, who earned an M.S. in Clinical Psychology from the Wisconsin School of Professional Psychology and is continuing his Psy.D. studies in Clinical Psychology, with completion anticipated in 2028. His Th.D. in Theology and Ph.D. in Christian Counseling complement that clinical education with theological preparation for Christ-centered soul care.

At Froedtert and the Medical College of Wisconsin, he served as a Student Psychologist and later Chief Student Psychologist, supporting veterans and first responders with traumatic brain injuries through the BRAVE program. His work included assessment, individualized treatment planning, multidisciplinary rehabilitation, psychoeducational and process-oriented groups, and peer supervision. His experience also includes supervised psychological testing of clergy at Milwaukee Psychotherapy Collaborative, recovery-focused group development at The Manor by Windrose, and case management and peer-support supervision at Biehl Bridges to Recovery.

Continuing education in assessment, trauma, neurobehavioral conditions, supervision, ethics, and risk management further informs this approach. Together, these experiences help shape RHM’s commitment to careful assessment, responsible documentation, collaborative care, and attention to each person’s spiritual, relational, emotional, and practical needs. His clinical psychology doctorate remains in progress; this background does not replace the qualifications or licensure required for regulated clinical services.

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