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Grief & Loss5 min read
Finding Hope When Grief Feels Overwhelming
By Dr. Jeffrey Gross• Lead Counseling Pastor, RHM
March 24, 2026
Psalm 34:18 — The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.
## The Permission to Grieve
One of the most comforting truths in Scripture is found in Psalm 34:18 — *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."* Notice that it does not say God is close to those who have it all together. He draws near to the **broken**.
Grief is not something to be fixed or hurried past. It is a sacred process. When we lose someone or something we love — a person, a relationship, a dream, a season of life — we are not wrong to feel the weight of that loss deeply.
## Jesus Wept
In John 11:35, we find the shortest verse in the Bible: *"Jesus wept."* Standing at the tomb of his friend Lazarus, fully knowing he was about to raise him from the dead, Jesus still wept. He entered into the grief of those around him.
This tells us something profound: **God does not dismiss your pain.** He enters it with you.
## Practical Steps Forward
While grief has no timeline, there are practices that can anchor you during the storm:
- **Lament honestly.** Read the Psalms — David cried out to God with raw, unfiltered pain. You can too.
- **Stay connected.** Isolation amplifies grief. Let trusted people in.
- **Receive care.** Biblical counseling provides a safe space to process loss without judgment.
- **Hold onto hope.** Romans 8:18 reminds us that present suffering is not the final word.
## You Are Not Alone
If you are walking through grief today, Restoring Hope Ministries is here. Our biblical counselors are trained to walk alongside you with compassion and Christ-centered care. You don't have to carry this alone.
